To Me.I spend a lot of time talking about others. A lot of time addressing others. Whether it is people I think I could help, or people I no…Nov 19, 2022Nov 19, 2022
To You.Its been 21 months since my husband said our marriage was over. At times it feels like just yesterday that I knew him. Other times it feels…Oct 9, 2022Oct 9, 2022
Things I Wish I Didn’t KnowI think being single, or in the early stages of dating, is so much lonelier after divorce than normal. Because I actually know what I am…Sep 24, 2022Sep 24, 2022
Only You Can Fix YouSomeone hurt you. They spewed terrible words; they acted in unkind ways. You are traumatized, angry, and it has caused you to act…Sep 23, 2022Sep 23, 2022
To Be KnownI am angry with myself and my own cowardice. This may come out messy but sometimes, that is just the way life is.Aug 6, 2022Aug 6, 2022
Too Damaged to Be LovedMost days, I am happy. I feel sufficient. I love my life, my family, my boyfriend, and the changes that are happening.Jul 27, 2022Jul 27, 2022
Divorce Stole My FamilyWhen I first learned my husband was leaving, I thought only of the loss of him. How I would never hold him again, laugh with him, or search…Jul 3, 2022Jul 3, 2022
The Weight of AbuseWhen I was growing up, I was always adamant about one thing: I would never let a man mistreat me. Grand talks of a game of grit-ball…Jul 2, 2022Jul 2, 2022
365 Days into DivorceI feel like I’ve done it. At some point this month I passed the year mark. From when my husband moved out of our home. From when I found…Jun 28, 20223Jun 28, 20223
